Otter2569 Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Is it bad to go pack up your things when she is not home (at work) and leave? Just had the break up now I have to get my stuff from her place over an hour away. It will be an emotional nightmare to do it in person. Link to post Share on other sites
blackcat777 Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 It's usually best to do it in a way that avoids contact. Can she leave your stuff with a friend, can a friend pick it up? Can you let it all go? I'm sorry you're going through this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Sorry for the break-up, Otter... If you still have access to her place, then - yes - just go when she's not there, get your stuff, and leave her key behind. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted March 27, 2015 Author Share Posted March 27, 2015 She almost always leaves her place unlocked. Today I have contractors coming by my place so i have a tight window to get in and out...it feels kind of sneaky. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Just do it. Make sure to take everything, so you never have to go back. Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 You get one trip. Anything left behind after that, you can safely assume will probably be burned. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Otter2569 Posted March 27, 2015 Author Share Posted March 27, 2015 LOL if its not in a smoldering pile of rubble as we speak Link to post Share on other sites
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