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How do you get over all the pain, all the hurt, all the betrayal, how can i forget everything as though it never happened and move on. I didn't deserve not even half of what was done to me and i can't get over the cruelty. I am still in shock of how one person can do all they can to destroy your every single last bit of happiness and life. How they can invest so much to do so much damage and i just stood there in the middle of the storm and took it and did nothing yet as i did nothing he did more harm.

 

How do you get over this, over all the harm they cause you? I know it is not right to say this but i do hope one day he gets what he rightfully deserves times a million, or at least feels a taste of the pain and all that i felt because of him. I don't understand how someone so cruel can live with themselves without any remorse of what they did.

 

I am trying to move on so badly, but every time my mind wanders off and thinks of all the horrible things he did to me and it just hurts, because i still can't understand how one person can do so much harm to another at all costs.

 

Time does heal, but i feel i am scarred from this relationship, he really did a number on me. Everyone around me says that good thing he showed his true colors ow instead when i am older and for it to be too late. Thankfully i never had children with him i am thankful for that every single day of my life.

how can i move on from this, he was very cruel, yet i feel i won't find someone else since he was the only person i ever truly was with for all these years.

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I'mNotYourGirl

I know this can sound cliche but you need to remove him from your life completly. I'm telling you from experience that now it really hurts but after some time the pain will go away. My ex did terrible things to me and i couldn't understand too, how is that possible to be such a evil person, but time has passed and now i almost don't remember his face. You don't need cruel person in your life. The best revenge is to move on, and be happy. This is what cruel ex's hates the most. They don't want you see happy. They want you to cry for them and miss them. Just live your life and forgot about him! Be happy! I promise you, after time, you will be very happy that this person is out of your life.

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Detectingfreak

I tell myself everyday that I am over my controlling ex. However, I have chosen to remain single forever now and I am 25. I don't think I can take another person breaking my heart and stealing all my money from me. I don't know how people can only be after your money and not care what happens to you mentally or physically, but there are people out there.

 

I have chosen to only use porn and nothing more. While being physical with someone was awesome, they are a person and not an object. They can choose when to leave and do what they want to do. I guess my moral of the story is you never truly get over an ex especially if it was your first ever love like mine was. I have vowed to never date again. I am happy having fun, getting drunk every single weekend and just spending my money the way i want while still being able to pay for rent.

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