JohnnyLoverBoy Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 It's my ex's fiance birthday tomorrow. Been in no contact for 9 months now. I was doing good past months don't know why it bothers me that it's her birthday tom. of course I don't have a plan on greeting her.. I am just feeling uneasy about it. Am I Gonna make it? I feel like I care but I should not care. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Read the No Contact guide. Would it hurt you if you got no answer? Link to post Share on other sites
H2OandO2 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 wow.... it is also my ex-fiancee's birthday tomorrow..... we broke up a little more than a month ago..... i don't think we should do anything. i don't want to get hurt more... Link to post Share on other sites
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted September 2, 2014 Author Share Posted September 2, 2014 No dude I don't plan on greeting her or anything. Just having a weird feeling for some reasons.. Maybe because I'm used to doing something for her on that day then suddenly this is the first time that I won't be doing anything. Read the No Contact guide. Would it hurt you if you got no answer? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted September 2, 2014 Author Share Posted September 2, 2014 Be sure to say No contact bro. Weird feeling isn't it? wow.... it is also my ex-fiancee's birthday tomorrow..... we broke up a little more than a month ago..... i don't think we should do anything. i don't want to get hurt more... Link to post Share on other sites
H2OandO2 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Be sure to say No contact bro. Weird feeling isn't it? extremely weird since the breakup is so new. i even know what gift to get him. but i'm not going to Link to post Share on other sites
SoThatHappened Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I feel like I care but I should not care. Of course you care. You always will if you loved her. Don't know the back story, but I'm guessing you got dumped. When it was my ex's birthday, I went out and kept myself occupied as much as possible until the day was over. Go out with friends, get drunk, go for a hike, go on a date... anything to not be left with your thoughts. Before you know it, the day will be over, you won't have contacted her, and everything will be fine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author JohnnyLoverBoy Posted September 3, 2014 Author Share Posted September 3, 2014 Thanks man. I don't really have the urge to contact her and I've been happy with my life for the past months. I'll probably go out and have fun and will treat the day like it's nothing. Of course you care. You always will if you loved her. Don't know the back story, but I'm guessing you got dumped. When it was my ex's birthday, I went out and kept myself occupied as much as possible until the day was over. Go out with friends, get drunk, go for a hike, go on a date... anything to not be left with your thoughts. Before you know it, the day will be over, you won't have contacted her, and everything will be fine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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