Alexxx201 Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 My ex gf and I were together for 2 years when I noticed she started acting coldly towards me and distancing herself. She didn't talk to me like she use to and she stopped laughing at my jokes. I would ask her about this and she would make up stupid excuses. Well one day I pressed her for an answer and she told me several things like "I'm confused" and when I asked about what I got very inconsistent answers from her. Now she had started talking to this other guy around this time. I noticed something strange because every time we talked on the phone she would be quiet on me because she was busy talking to this guy on instant message. I'd say things to her and it was like she couldn't even hear me. And then she'd burst out laughing randomly at something I knew obviously that guy had said to her.. One day she told me that she didn't know if she likes this new guy more than she should. I was alarmed and devastated but stupid me...I blew it off. Well, one day I come home and I notice that I am locked out of our house. I proceed to call her but she doesn't answer the phone and I start getting frustrated and finally she texts me "hold on I'm about to talk to you..." I looked inside the house and lo and behold....the new guy she had become friends with was there. It was like a punch in the stomach... I angrily asked her why she had locked me out and all she said was "I don't want you and him on the same property". Well, long story short she kicks me out and starts a relationship with this new guy. She would tell me that she didn't love me anymore and was in love with him. So a few weeks go by of no contact. I avoid my ex and she doesn't talk to me. She un adds me on facebook and yahoo messenger and basically drops me. End of story, right? Wrong. Several weeks after all of this happened and she started a relationship with this new guy....I get a text from her asking me how I am doing. I was very confused and just replied with "i'm good". She will continue to text me that almost every night asking me the same question. "How are you doing?". She is confusing me. I just respond with "good, you?" and she says "I'm good...glad to hear you are doing good". And a few times she has even asked me to hang out. I don't know what she is up to... Well she texted me on easter and told me that she had no one to celebrate with and that easter would suck for her. I was stupid and told her that she could text me if she was lonely... her response was "awwww...I'm so dumb". I asked her why she was dumb and she said "for dropping you". So the next few days continue like this where she texts me asking me whats up. She is still in a relationship with this other guy and though she said they are sorta having problems...she still loves him and is with him. Well today she texted me and hinted at me that her and her bf had just got done having sex. Really? I have no idea why she felt she had to tell me that. I haven't heard from her since. I don't know what's up..why is she acting friendly towards me? She still seems happy with her new guy. Link to post Share on other sites
stitch702 Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 Don't give her the benefit of having the best of both worlds Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 Forget she even exists. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
zoomzoom Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 She is not worth it, rubbing this in your face like that! It's very hard to do but go the no contact route!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 Okay, me being stupid but how do you "hint" to someone that you just got done having sex? What makes you think this? Link to post Share on other sites
xztjohn Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 Dude, I was in the exact same situation. For me the best route was just to ignore her completely and live your life. You don't want her to have the best of both worlds, she did you wrong and she must pay the consequences by u ignoring her. Trust me its the best thing for YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 17, 2012 Share Posted April 17, 2012 I would recommend you read my Caliguy No Contact guide, and then read it some more, then some more, and then some more after that.... copy, paste, print, read, mark, inwardly digest, memorise and live by it. I promise you - as will everyone else - this is the best - and only thing - you could do. Link to post Share on other sites
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