AnGeLic_gAL Posted January 4, 2004 Share Posted January 4, 2004 Hello everyone, i want an advice from u ppl on a friend's problem...i really don't know how to handle her, shes totally in love with this guy and and she thinks that he loves her too... the thing is that they are friends for the past 4 yrs...but only true friends!!! its from his attitude towards her that she has been able to realize that he loves her too...she says that he is scared to tell her about his love coz of their religious differences......(although i think that its a pretty funny logic but thats wat she believes in) She says that he is a kind of guy who wud always want a long-term relationship like marriage and not any dating stuff....she also wants to establish a long-term relationship like him.........but the problem is that they both can't leave their religions...my friend won't leave her religion coz she strictly believes in it and also wud never like to hurt her parents by converting......n as far as the guy is concerned, she says that he won't convert too.... She really loves him........i've seen her cry for him alot.....but am totally confused of wat to do for her........She is too shy to ask him directly about his love...n i know her nature she wudn't do that ever...i asked her to allow me solving the problem by asking him but she won't allow me too....she can get over it if she won't get to see him that often but the problem is that they both work at the same place, she can't avoid him..this is also because they have been good friends and there must be some good enough reason to stop talking tom someone... Now the situation is that she is just hanging between the sky and the earth!! and its hurting me alot coz shes been my really good friend...n i really care for her..... Such situations just leave u with a broken-heart n nothing else...... Anyone who want to give some advice for my friend....?????? I appreciate ur help people... Link to post Share on other sites
Paulie Posted January 4, 2004 Share Posted January 4, 2004 so they've been close friends for 4 years, and somebody hasnt made a move yet??? The thing about religion, well that depends on what religion the two of them are. Some religions are much more tolerant of marraige to someone outside of the religion than others. Man...I dont know, I guess she should just tell him how she feels, and if there's some kind of issue about religion or optherwise, then they should either work it out or break up. Sometimes u just gotta make a move, u know? Paulie Link to post Share on other sites
Author AnGeLic_gAL Posted January 5, 2004 Author Share Posted January 5, 2004 Paulie thanks alot for the advice...i've been telling her the same but she just can't be the first one to make a move....as i've already told she is kinda shy... thanks alot anyways......i appreciate ur response... Link to post Share on other sites
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