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Just broke up with girlfriend and we both feel awful


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Well I just broke up with her and it wasn't because i hated her or anything, it was because things were not working out.

 

We both feel really bad, but she feels worse then me. She loved me very much and I loved her very much also. I still care about her very much. We are still best friends, but she feels very sad and depressed about it.

 

What should I do?

 

Thank You,

 

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One of the things that can be done is know what you're feeling is going to change. It doesn't stay the same. This bad feeling is temporary and it does get better. That's not a line. I've lived through it more than once, so I know what I'm talking about.

 

My latest break-up was the worst. We were both very hurt by it. It was the right thing to do and despite the hurt, we knew it. You probably do too. Venting helps. Reading posts here helps. Knowing the pain is temporary helps. NC helps too. But the thing that helps most is time. That helps the most.

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