joshextreme Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 I know I've been around this forum a lot posting all my problems and I would like to thank everyone for being the support that I've needed. If it wasn't for everyone here I'd probably still be making mistakes haha To the point, I just officially blocked my ex on FB.. again. For some reason all I care about her reaction and I can't seem to think for myself. I think it's cause I want her back so badly. I just restarted NC and I'm on day 2. This is the reason I broke NC.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t270722/ Now before I went NC I had set my settings so that she could go to my page but couldn't see a thing but my picture. I could also see her page except I could see everything. As I said before is why do I care about her reaction so much? Link to post Share on other sites
2011 Posted March 26, 2011 Share Posted March 26, 2011 You will get to a point where you don't care it will just take some time but it'll hit you in stages, you'll feel it a little stronger each time then you won't care at all. I think this is the stage people fear is actually not caring, you know it's in the post but at the stage you may be at you still really care. I think I got my first little 'not caring' stage tonight, in all honesty you will sicken yourself with caring, looking at FB, wondering if you'll get a text etc. and that is what brings about your resolve to once and for all not care. At this point you have her on a pedestal and she knows it, picture her up there on that pedestal then see her fall off it and flat on her face. Keep reprogramming your mind with that thought. 2011 Link to post Share on other sites
Author joshextreme Posted March 26, 2011 Author Share Posted March 26, 2011 (edited) You will get to a point where you don't care it will just take some time but it'll hit you in stages, you'll feel it a little stronger each time then you won't care at all. I think this is the stage people fear is actually not caring, you know it's in the post but at the stage you may be at you still really care. I think I got my first little 'not caring' stage tonight, in all honesty you will sicken yourself with caring, looking at FB, wondering if you'll get a text etc. and that is what brings about your resolve to once and for all not care. At this point you have her on a pedestal and she knows it, picture her up there on that pedestal then see her fall off it and flat on her face. Keep reprogramming your mind with that thought. 2011 yeah thanks! Not checking her fb tonight was actually kinda nice. It's hard to imagine anything bad to her since we ended on kinda good terms. Why do people fear not caring? I would love to not care lol Edited March 26, 2011 by joshextreme Link to post Share on other sites
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