Guest Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 I've been with a girl for nearly 6 months. She approached me online (I was online for the first time and new to the area). Things were great at first and small arguements made us stronger. I asked her to move in 3 months ago and she will not because she has a dog which she does not want to let go (I do not want the dog at my place - it's a Boxer - very hyper - very big...). I need to be with someone all of the time to be truely happy. What I am struggling with is if she's the one or if she's just somebody. I'm very frustrated that we are not making progress and just dating/sleeping over... Backgrounds: Me - divorced from my soul mate - our lives changed and we matured and grew apart. Her - ex-boyfriend cheated on her too many times and she called off the engagement. Any thoughts- Carey Link to post Share on other sites
Double D Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 It sounds like your relationship isnt progressing much. How much are the two of you willing to compromise and is the main problem her dog or something else. Have a talk with her and ask her where she thinks your relationship is going. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 You only knew her about 2 months or so when you asked her to move in with you and told her that she cannot bring her dog ?? First off.. 2 months is wayyyyy to quick to be asking someone to move in. and then you have asked her to get rid of a family member that she loves.. You made it a him or me thing.. You lost... I don't blame her for not moving in with you by the way.. I would never get rid of my pet because of a GF. Carey, I think you need to think about this relationship and maybe you will realize that you may be rebounding. How much do you both see each other during the week ? Link to post Share on other sites
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