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    EleanorBurner's Avatar

    I hate my life

    I understand you. There are hard times in life. Try to do something interesting for you. If you do not have the strength try to go in for sports. It has been proven that when you practice sport your body developing endorphins. I think it's a good idea to enroll in fitness or yoga where there will be group exercises. If you are not helped, I advise you to contact a specialist.
    Posted 17th October 2017 at 11:46 AM by EleanorBurner EleanorBurner is offline
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    My Story...

    I just thought i should share this with everyone, the fact about life is that everyone will face one or two challenges which define them .its either you overcome it or you it overthrow you.18 years ago i had divorce with my husband, he left me for another woman who i never thought could be. i was so down and devastated that i was pissed with my life itself. it was the end of the world i thought because so much i tried to bring my husband back was to no avail, i could not help it that i had to try more and more years trying to bring him back. He would not answer my phone not even talk of wanting to see. we had two child that was left for me to take care of them, it was hell for. tried to be in another relationship since then but it wont work out because my heart is with him and i still love him so much. even thinking of the kids we shared that was left to me. four years of trying i could still not make him come back. so i left him for good i suppose believing that if you love something you set it free, if it comes back its yours and if it never comes back then it was never yours. so that was how i have lived since then, lonely and heartbroken. but i fight it all through if not for anything but for my kids. Last year my son, who is now 32 had strokes and met a man who happens to be a herbalist, who cures him and he was able to lift and use his right arm and leg again. it was indeed a miracle to us. i was trying to say thanks to this man and give some gifts for the good work he has done for us to show my appreciation. he was very happy and would collect it from me. we became a very good friend in the long run and i had to talk him what my life was all about. i told him about my husband leaving me for another woman and abadoning the kids for me alone to take the burden and work has not been really fine. So is this man ask me ..
    'Do you Still love the man?"..i could not say no because i still love him and he said if i wish him back in life he will surely get him back for me. I asked how is that going to be possible but he promised me if i believe i will surely get my husband back. I believe him and follow all his instructions. to my surprise my husband call wakes me up the following week asking for permission to speak with and will like to say some things to me that even though i dont want to him back as husband but he would like to be a very good friend. i was shocked and could not believe what happened. we got together and work things out and now we live happily together again with out kids. and our son is getting married come this december 9th. it was such a wonderful story i love to share with you people. i know there are some people out there like who is willing to straight things in their life. i can only say one thing that if you would believe what you have lost can still come back to you. then i would want you to get in contact with the man who has helped me also.

    His name Ifatona Ikusaanu..
    email -
    and number to get in contact with him are .......+1 386 444 2009 or +2348141756652,
    Goodluck to you. i wish you happiness as mine.

    Halina Snudling.
    Posted 18th November 2016 at 12:13 PM by maria09 maria09 is offline
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    Drama queen?

    Hi lady, since I am reading this years after you posted it seems surreal to make any comments. Fact is I wonder how it all panned out for you. I find that after your initial journal entry your subsequent ones have no mention of your husband Bob. Just curious as to whether you are still with him or have divorced him. I think to be fair to both parties it would have been better if you were to have divorced him. He may be happy on his own after a while whereas you would be free to pursue your romantic urges. Just a thought.
    Posted 12th October 2016 at 2:21 PM by Just a Guy Just a Guy is offline
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    Dreams :-(

    Lady it is just a dream. What is happening in real life with you?
    Posted 12th October 2016 at 2:09 PM by Just a Guy Just a Guy is offline
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    My Story...

    I once read an account similar to this one in another forum( unrelated to this one) and all I can say is that your husband Bob is what is known as a cuckold. He is what is termed a beta male and such people abdicate their masculinity in favour of more dominating males who assert their masculine superiority over other males including wives of other males who do not assert their masculinity to protect their relationship with their wives.
    The way I see it is that you should ask ( assuming you have not already done so considering that I am responding to events which occurred in 2007) for an amicable divorce from your husband Bob and then marry your new boyfriend(I guess old by now) and settle down to a happily ever after life with him. If you have already done so then my advice is redundant although as a sequel I would say that such unions don't last and if it has'nt happened yet then it is likely to happen in the future, that you will find that all is not so hunky dory in your new relationship and you will yearn for the old relationship you had with Bob. What happens next only you can tell us.

    Will be happy for an update if you do happen to read my comments. Cheers.
    Posted 12th October 2016 at 1:52 PM by Just a Guy Just a Guy is offline
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    victimsoflove's Avatar

    My Story...

    Hi. I think the relationship u have with Bob is a soulmate relationship. You are like bestfriends and that's what best friends do, set you free and make u happy.

    Then u met John and u were attracted to him physically and mentally. We don't meet people by accident. They were meant to cross our path. Because we probably have unresolved issues from a past life with them or because we need to learn a lesson from them. That's why the attraction is so strong.

    Maybe John is a deeper soulmate than Bob. Bob doesn't have an issue with letting you go. He loves himself and not afraid to lose anyone in his life. Yes, he will be lonely because of the memories u had together, but he loves you too and letting you be free to choose for yourself would make him happy too. that's true love i think.

    I suggest you read about karmic relationship, soulmate relationship, and twin flame relationship and see which kind they belong.

    Good luck!
    Posted 28th September 2016 at 1:32 AM by victimsoflove victimsoflove is offline
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    Happy Thoughts...

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    Posted 14th October 2014 at 5:01 AM by mauwitho mauwitho is offline
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    Where are we now?

    [B]My Dearest,[/B]
    [B]my name is miss prisca kones,l read your profile today[/B]
    [B]and i choosed you as the only one whom i can give my heart as far as love is concern ensuring i bring joy and happiness into your door[/B]
    [B]step.lf you are interested in me and want to know more about me and to[/B]
    [B]view my pictures,you can contact me[/B]
    [B]( My dear i want you to understand that there is[/B]
    no age,race,colour and religion bar when it comes to true love.only
    [B]what is important is pure and devoted relationship.Hoping to hear from[/B]
    [B]you as soon as possible.Thank you[/B]
    [B]Miss prisca[/B]
    Posted 13th June 2011 at 11:03 PM by priscababy1000 priscababy1000 is offline
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    I hate my life

    I hate to shock some folks, but Christians do exoerience sadness, grief, and disappointment, too. Its a normal part of life.....Some of us have lost friends too, and have lost the proverbial shoulder to cry on. Life is not perfect, sadness does enter from time to time....
    Posted 3rd January 2011 at 12:28 AM by celtic_romantic123 celtic_romantic123 is offline
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    I hate my life

    if i was a Christian i would say find Jesus. well do you suddenly change from depressed into happiness n then to other emotions?
    Posted 2nd July 2010 at 11:21 PM by RL_Chaos RL_Chaos is offline
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    I hate my life

    Hey. I feel like that all the time, I dont know whats made you feel like that but I promise you there is always light at the end of the tunnel. There is always someone who is worse off which doesnt make your own problems seem so bad. Whenever you feel down just remember that
    Posted 2nd May 2010 at 8:26 PM by AngelWings10 AngelWings10 is offline
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    I hate my life

    hey, dont be upset nothing deserve , love yourself & your life & leran how you can be happy , really life is short , Our life is like a movie sometimes we are the actors & aometimes we are the viwers , always remember there are many peaople they didnt even have a good things in their life , so you have sometimes a good things so be happy
    Posted 16th September 2008 at 7:57 AM by angelinna angelinna is offline
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    My Story...

    In the last 4 months so much has changed, and yet nothing has. I don't know the answers to your questions, but I have been pondering them. Maybe if I knew the answers it would all be easy. There are some recent updates, so maybe I will post.
    Posted 25th April 2008 at 12:15 AM by Micke81 Micke81 is offline
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    PlacidityLove's Avatar

    My Story...

    Interesting senerio, first and foremost it is obvious to say the least your husband and you have an open relationship and with that being the question, why?
    Secondly, how long have your husband and yourself been together? The reason why I ask me personally I could not imagine being married yet having a open dating relationship, interesting enough, I see no use in it all together. However to each there own. At any rate what make your husband and you stay together- is it only due to being lonely? SInce it is obviously you two are very secure within your open relationship I guess i should not even asks the questions I just did, but it is out there now. Question? what do you want to come out of this relationship if any with John? do you love him? If so, one in a one-on-one do you think the fling will stop. I say this becasue it is fun to sneak around or simply be with someone that is not fully your-I guess- however this numbness you have in regards to Bob, why do you think this is the case? Most importantly and soforth do you really think things will get better between Bob and yourself? I know you mentioned you love him, but do you really? I would like for you to ponder on the questions I just posed here, and truly seek the truth. At the end of the day it is about your happiness, regardless who it hurt. I do not think that noone should be married out of convenience or obligation. However again to each there own. Hey these are not judgements. I am just an realist.
    Posted 24th April 2008 at 2:14 PM by PlacidityLove PlacidityLove is offline
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    Valentine's Day

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    Posted 15th February 2008 at 4:47 PM by irc0p irc0p is offline
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    Posted 31st January 2008 at 12:04 PM by Micke81 Micke81 is offline
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    Happy Thoughts...

    I've just read through your journal entries and am glad to see this last one. Keep thinking happy and positive thoughts - it will do you good. Buck of luck with everything.
    Posted 31st January 2008 at 12:56 AM by becauseofyou becauseofyou is offline
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    Twist...with lime

    If you want to move on quicker and forget about him it's best to get rid of all contacts with him, it'll be a pain at the start but you'll get use to it.
    Posted 25th January 2008 at 9:22 AM by Muffinness Muffinness is offline
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    The one good thing

    Don't leave the one you love for the one you like,
    because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
    Posted 25th January 2008 at 9:19 AM by Muffinness Muffinness is offline
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    The one good thing

    How Do I Gain Back My Girlfriend Trust After Cheating Where Do I Begin I Love Her I Just Messed Up But Its A New Year And This Time I Feel I Can Do Better
    Posted 6th January 2008 at 1:48 PM by cassie4linda cassie4linda is offline

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